Say Yes Without Hesitation

by | Nov 28, 2021 | BYO Superstar Blog

While attending a friends birthday dinner in Palm Springs I sat next to a music agent. He was lovely and very charming. He told me about an upcoming singer that he represented that he knew was going to become a superstar.

At the time I was a creative manager for a large studio, and I had been wanting to develop a reality show for the internet that followed up-and-coming talents rise to fame. I was eager to meet his client and he suggested that I go to Whiskey A Go Go a very famous venue for bands to see her sing.

A few weeks later I asked a few friends of mine to join me for her show that night. The show didn’t start until right before midnight, which was way past our bedtime however, I was very curious to see the up-and-coming talent in action.

I saw her perform at a famous venue on Sunset Boulevard and even though the attendance was moderate, she performed as if it was a packed house. I remember thinking,  how great it is how she shared her gifts and talents with pure enthusiasm, not getting caught up in the numbers, and instead embracing the moment. Shortly after that encounter, she became a globally recognized superstar.

As soon as the show started it was obvious that she was just as talented as her agent had mentioned. She sang her heart out and she played as if she was playing to a sold-out stadium.

After the show I had a chance to speak with her we headed outside and sat on the sidewalk on Sunset Blvd. She was at ease with sharing her aspirations and passions for performing and about her dreams for her future.

At a friend’s birthday party, I met a talent manager who told me about a rising star in the music industry. I was interested in learning more about her and meeting her.

Over the years I thought about Katy and how sure she was of herself and her dreams. How she didn’t hesitate to say yes to her true-life purpose.

When I am feeling hesitant to saying yes to my true life purpose, I lean on that encounter with the beautiful girl alone on a stage with just her guitar who today plays to sold out stadiums.


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